💰What It Costs To Follow God
I. 🔑 1. Matthew 8:18–22 – The Cost of Following Jesus
Two individuals approach Jesus—one eager, one hesitant:
- Scribe: “I will follow You wherever You go.”
➤ Jesus replies that He has nowhere to lay His head. Discipleship is not glamorous—there’s a cost in comfort, security, and control. - Another disciple: “Let me first go bury my father.”
➤ Jesus answers, “Let the dead bury their own dead.” The Kingdom call takes priority over cultural, familial, and even reasonable obligations.
🧭 Revelation: Following Jesus demands immediate, radical reorientation of priorities. No delay. No divided allegiance.
🔑 2. Luke 14:28–33 – Count the Cost
Jesus urges the crowd to count the cost of discipleship:
- Parables of the man building a tower and the king going to war emphasize wise foresight and total commitment.
- Climax: “Any of you who does not give up everything cannot be My disciple.”
🧭 Revelation: Discipleship is not casual. It involves surrendering everything—possessions, plans, even relationships—before setting out.
🔑 3. 1 Kings 19:19–21 – Elisha’s Response to the Call
- Elijah throws his cloak on Elisha, symbolizing prophetic succession.
- Elisha’s response: he burns his plow and slaughters his oxen—his livelihood—and feeds the people.
- Then he follows Elijah and becomes his servant.
🧭 Revelation: Elisha literally burns his past. No backup plan. No looking back. He steps fully into God’s call, with total abandon.
🔑 4. Genesis 19:1–26 – Lot’s Wife Looks Back
- God mercifully rescues Lot’s family from destruction in Sodom.
- As they flee, they’re told not to look back.
- Lot’s wife disobeys, looks back, and becomes a pillar of salt.
🧭 Revelation: Looking back reveals a heart still attached to the former life. The call of God requires forward motion. Hesitation or nostalgia for what was can bring ruin.
🔑 5. Luke 17:32 – “Remember Lot’s Wife”
- In a discussion about the coming of the Kingdom, Jesus says this stark three-word command.
- It’s a warning: In moments of decisive movement, don’t cling to the past.
- Immediately after, Jesus adds: “Whoever seeks to preserve his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will keep it.”
🧭 Revelation: Jesus reaffirms the urgency and danger of attachment to the old life. To follow God is to let go, even in moments of chaos.
🧵 Tying It All Together: What God Is Revealing About Following Him
🔥 1. Following God Requires Total Surrender
- Elisha burns his plow.
- The would-be disciples must forsake comfort and delay.
- Jesus demands renunciation of everything in Luke 14.
⏳ 2. The Call Is Urgent
- No time to bury the dead.
- No time to look back.
- Lot’s wife delays—and it costs her everything.
🧠 3. We Must Count the Cost, Then Commit Without Reserve
- We are to think deeply (Luke 14), but once the decision is made, there is no turning back (Luke 17:32, Gen 19).
❤️ 4. The Heart Must Be Detached from the Old Life
- Lot’s wife was physically leaving Sodom, but her heart wasn’t.
- Jesus presses that internal loyalty matters as much as external action.
✝️ Devotional Summary: “No Turning Back”
When God calls, He demands everything, because He offers everything.
The Kingdom cannot be entered with a divided heart, a backward glance, or a backup plan.
Burn the plow. Don’t look back. Count the cost—and follow anyway.
II. 🔑 1 John 3:2–3 – Purity from Hope
“We know that when He appears we shall be like Him… Everyone who has this hope purifies himself, just as He is pure.”
🧭 Revelation: True hope in Christ’s return leads to active purification. We don’t just “believe”—we prepare ourselves with holy living. There’s a direct connection between future focus and present discipline.
🔑 Matthew 24:36–51 – Unexpected Return & Faithful Servants
“Stay awake… for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
- Some servants are found faithful, doing their work.
- Others say, “My master is delayed,” and fall into apathy or abuse.
- The master returns suddenly, and there’s a stark reward vs. punishment contrast.
🧭 Revelation: Readiness is proven through consistent obedience, not emotional urgency. The faithful servant keeps doing his duty even when it looks like nothing is happening. Delay is a test of loyalty.
🔑 Matthew 25:1–13 – The Parable of the Ten Virgins
“The wise took oil… The bridegroom was delayed… and those who were ready went in.”
- All are waiting for the bridegroom (Jesus).
- Only half were wise enough to prepare for delay.
- When He comes, there’s no time left to prepare—the door is shut.
🧭 Revelation: Preparedness can’t be borrowed last minute. A disciple’s readiness is seen in how they live before the moment comes. Wisdom is long-view faithfulness.
🔑 Malachi 2:2 – Failing to Honor God
“If you do not listen, and if you do not take it to heart to give honor to My name… then I will send the curse upon you.”
🧭 Revelation: Discipleship is not just about tasks—it’s about the honor of God. A heart that neglects His worth will end up cursed, not covered. God’s name must be central in our lives.
🔑 Malachi 3:16–18 – A Book of Remembrance
“Then those who feared the Lord spoke with one another… and a book of remembrance was written.”
- God pays attention to those who fear Him and think on His name.
- A future distinction will be made: “You shall see the difference between the righteous and the wicked.”
🧭 Revelation: Even in obscurity, God notices the faithful. There will come a day when the quiet faithfulness of God’s people will be publicly recognized and rewarded. God keeps record of every act of reverent devotion.
🧵 Comprehensive Themes: What God Is Revealing About Following Him
⚔️ 1. Following God Requires Total Surrender
- (Matt. 8:18–22, 1 Kings 19) You can’t keep the past as a backup plan.
- (Gen. 19, Luke 17:32) Looking back shows divided loyalty.
🧭 2. Count the Cost, Then Don’t Look Back
- (Luke 14:28–33) Discipleship must be deliberate and total.
- (Matt. 25:1–13) The wise are pre-prepared; it’s too late when the moment arrives.
⏳ 3. The Call Is Urgent and Final
- (Matt. 24:36–51) He returns when you least expect it.
- (Gen. 19) Escape is urgent; lingering is dangerous.
🕯 4. Faithfulness Is Proven in the Hidden, Delayed Moments
- (Matt. 24:45–51, Mal. 3:16) Real disciples are consistent in obscurity.
- (Matt. 25:1–13) The wise build margin into their faith (the oil).
👑 5. God Will Distinguish Between the True and the False
- (Mal. 3:18) There will be a clear reveal—no gray area.
- (Matt. 24 & 25) Division between wise/foolish, faithful/faithless, ready/unready.
💧 6. Hope in His Return Produces Holiness Now
- (1 John 3:2–3) The truly hopeful purify themselves now.
- (Mal. 2:2) Neglecting God’s honor leads to judgment.
✝️ Devotional Takeaway: “Ready in the Waiting”
Discipleship is not just about a decision—it’s about daily readiness.
The path of Christ is narrow, costly, and forward-facing.
We are called to walk it with oil in our lamps, a cloak on our shoulders, and no glance backward.
Jesus is coming again. Those who truly believe it will be living like it—today.
III. 🔑 Matthew 19:16–22 – The Rich Young Ruler
“What good deed must I do to have eternal life?”
- He keeps the commandments, but Jesus probes deeper: “Sell all you possess… then come, follow Me.”
- The young man goes away sorrowful—he had great wealth.
🧭 Revelation: Even morally upright people can miss the Kingdom if they cling to anything more tightly than they cling to Jesus. Discipleship demands not just doing good—but letting go of what masters us. His wealth wasn’t just treasure—it was a rival god.
🔑 Matthew 13:45–46 – The Pearl of Great Price
“When he found one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it.”
- The Kingdom is so valuable that it’s worth everything.
- Selling all is not a burden—it’s joyful, voluntary exchange because of the surpassing worth of the pearl.
🧭 Revelation: Where the rich young ruler walked away sad, the pearl-seeker sells everything with gladness. The difference? One values what he has more than the Kingdom, the other sees the Kingdom as the only true treasure.
💡 Integrated Themes: What God Is Revealing About Following Him
Let’s bring all the passages together—from Genesis to the Gospels, from Malachi to 1 John—and see what is revealed about true discipleship:
🥇 1. The Kingdom Is Worth Everything
- Matt 13:45–46: The Kingdom is the Pearl.
- Matt 19:16–22: But not everyone is willing to part with their pearls.
- Luke 14: True disciples renounce all to follow.
⚠️ If Jesus is not our greatest treasure, we will hesitate when He calls.
⚖️ 2. There Is a Cost—But Also a Great Exchange
- Elisha (1 Kings 19): Burns his plow—gains a prophetic destiny.
- Rich ruler (Matt 19): Keeps his wealth—loses the Kingdom.
- Pearl buyer (Matt 13): Sells everything—gains the priceless pearl.
💬 “Whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.” (Matt 16:25)
⌛ 3. The Call Is Urgent and Unpredictable
- Genesis 19 / Luke 17: No time to look back.
- Matt 24–25: Be awake, have oil, be faithful now—the Master returns suddenly.
- Malachi 3: God is keeping record, even in obscurity.
🕰 Delayed return doesn’t mean delayed readiness.
🧹 4. Real Hope Purifies the Heart
- 1 John 3:2–3: The hope of seeing Christ fuels holy living.
- Malachi 2: Honoring God’s name is serious business.
🔥 True hope doesn’t make us lazy—it purifies our desires.
🧭 5. Following Jesus Requires Clear Direction and No Looking Back
- Luke 9 / Matt 8: No time for hesitation or divided loyalty.
- Lot’s wife (Gen 19) / Luke 17:32: Looking back can destroy you.
- Elisha (1 Kings 19): Destroyed his past to secure his future.
✝️ Disciples don’t keep their old life in storage.
📖 6. God Will Distinguish the Faithful from the False
- Matt 24–25, Malachi 3: The wise, pure, and faithful will be revealed when the Master comes.
- Book of Remembrance (Mal. 3:16–18): God sees everything—even secret reverence.
👑 Faithfulness is not always visible—but it is always rewarded.
✝️ Final Devotional Insight: “Everything for the Pearl”
The Kingdom of God is not a negotiation. It’s a trade.
The cost is high—but the reward is beyond price.
The only question is: Do we see it clearly enough to pay the price?
- Some will burn the plow and follow.
- Others will look back—and turn to salt.
- Some will store oil and stay ready.
- Others will delay—and miss the door.
- Some will sell everything for the Pearl.
- Others will walk away, sorrowful.
Matthew 8:21-22 (Jesus’ Call to Discipleship)
Matthew 8:21-22 (NIV):
21 Another disciple said to him, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.”
22 But Jesus told him, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.”
In this passage, Jesus is addressing a disciple who expresses a desire to follow Him, but with a condition: the disciple wants to first go and bury his father. Jesus’ response seems harsh: “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.” This response can be interpreted as prioritizing the call to follow Jesus over all earthly obligations, even those that might seem urgent, such as family responsibilities.
1 Kings 19:19-21 (Elijah’s Call to Elisha)
1 Kings 19:19-21 (NIV):
19 So Elijah went from there and found Elisha son of Shaphat. He was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen, and he himself was driving the twelfth pair. Elijah went up to him and threw his cloak around him.
20 Elisha then left his oxen and ran after Elijah. “Let me kiss my father and mother goodbye,” he said, “and then I will come with you.”
21 Elijah replied, “Go back. What have I done to you?” So Elisha left him and went back. He took his yoke of oxen and slaughtered them. He burned the plowing equipment to cook the meat and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he set out to follow Elijah and became his servant.
In this passage, Elijah calls Elisha to follow him and leave behind his former life as a farmer. Elisha requests to say goodbye to his parents before fully committing, and Elijah allows this request. Elisha then sacrifices his oxen and burning his plowing equipment, showing his complete break from his past life in order to follow Elijah.
Comparison:
1. The Call to Discipleship:
- Matthew 8:21-22: Jesus’ call to follow Him is absolute and urgent. Jesus challenges the disciple to prioritize the call to discipleship over even the most culturally and religiously significant obligations, such as burial rites. The emphasis is on the immediate and complete commitment to following Jesus, which requires leaving behind even the natural duty of family.
- 1 Kings 19:19-21: Elijah’s call to Elisha, while also a call to leave behind his past life and commit to prophetic service, is less immediate and allows for a moment of farewell. Elisha’s request to say goodbye to his parents is accepted, and he even prepares a farewell feast. The call is still significant, but it is not met with the same urgency as Jesus’ call in Matthew.
2. Urgency of the Call:
- Matthew 8:21-22: Jesus emphasizes the urgency of following Him, even when it means leaving behind family obligations. The phrase “let the dead bury their own dead” implies that those who are spiritually dead (unresponsive to the call of the Kingdom) can take care of earthly matters, but those who are called must prioritize the Kingdom of God above all else.
- 1 Kings 19:19-21: While the call is significant, the urgency is not as immediate. Elijah allows Elisha to go back and say goodbye, which indicates a more gradual transition. Elijah’s response of “What have I done to you?” can be understood as giving Elisha the freedom to choose to follow, without the same immediate pressure that Jesus places on His disciples.
3. Sacrifice and Separation:
- Matthew 8:21-22: Jesus is calling for total separation from worldly attachments. The disciple’s request to bury his father may indicate a reluctance to part with familial ties, which could be seen as a symbol of attachments to earthly things. Jesus’ response highlights that following Him must come first.
- 1 Kings 19:19-21: Elisha’s sacrifice is more symbolic of a total commitment to the prophetic ministry. He kills his oxen and burns his plowing equipment, signifying that he has no intention of returning to his former way of life. While there is a moment to say goodbye, the focus is on the irrevocable commitment Elisha makes.
4. The Role of Family:
- Matthew 8:21-22: Family obligations are set aside in favor of following Jesus. This contrasts with the cultural importance of honoring one’s parents in Jewish tradition. Jesus challenges this value by urging His follower to place His call above even the honor of family duties.
- 1 Kings 19:19-21: Elisha’s request to kiss his parents goodbye is granted. This highlights a more traditional approach where family obligations are respected, but the call to follow God is still prioritized. There is an acknowledgment of the importance of family, but the decision to follow Elijah is seen as a profound, life-altering step.
Conclusion:
Both passages involve a call to leave behind one’s former life to follow God, but the urgency and the nature of the response differ. In Matthew 8:21-22, Jesus challenges His followers to leave behind everything, including family obligations, with no delay. The call is radical and demands an immediate response. In contrast, 1 Kings 19:19-21 portrays a slightly more flexible approach, where Elisha is allowed to say goodbye to his family before fully committing, symbolizing a step-by-step transition into his prophetic role.
The difference highlights the varying emphases in the Old and New Testament calls to discipleship—while both require sacrifice, Jesus’ call is marked by an immediate and uncompromising urgency that signifies the newness of the Kingdom He is inaugurating.
🔑 Luke 9:61–62 – No One Who Looks Back Is Fit
“I will follow you, Lord, but let me first say farewell to those at my home.”
Jesus said to him, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”
🧭 Revelation:
- The man wants to follow—but on his own terms.
- Jesus responds with strong imagery: plow work demands straight lines—you can’t do it while looking backward.
- Looking back = divided heart, hesitation, or clinging to old ties.
⚠️ This isn’t about being harsh. It’s about the nature of the Kingdom. You can’t plow forward and look backward at the same time. Discipleship demands directional clarity.
🔥 Now with Luke 9:61–62 in the Picture, Here’s What God Is Revealing About Following Him:
Let’s weave it all together:
💎 1. The Kingdom Is Worth Everything
- Pearl of great price (Matt 13) — worth selling all.
- Rich ruler (Matt 19) — refused to sell all and walked away.
- Luke 9:61–62 — even “reasonable” requests (like saying goodbye) can be distractions if they divide our heart.
👉 Jesus doesn’t compete with our past—He replaces it.
🚫 2. Looking Back Disqualifies You
- Lot’s wife (Gen 19), Luke 17:32 — looked back and perished.
- Luke 9:62 — looking back while following is a sign you’re unfit.
- 1 Kings 19 — Elisha burns his plow, slaughters the oxen—he makes it impossible to return.
🧨 Discipleship is a point of no return.
⚖️ 3. There Is a Real Cost—and a Real Trade
- Luke 14:28–33 — count the cost.
- Matt 13:45–46 — joyful surrender for something better.
- Matt 19:16–22 — unwillingness to surrender = lost opportunity.
✝️ You will lose something. But if you don’t lose it—you lose Him.
🕯 4. Be Ready—No Delay, No Excuses
- Luke 9:59–61 — “Let me first…” = disqualified delay.
- Matt 24–25 — delay tests faith; only the prepared endure.
- Luke 14 — excuses reveal divided hearts.
🕰 Spiritual procrastination is still disobedience.
🔥 5. True Hope Produces Holy Focus
- 1 John 3:3 — purity comes from hope.
- Malachi 2–3 — honoring God in obscurity matters.
- Faithful servants (Matt 24:45–51) — readiness = reward.
👑 Faithful followers live today like He could return tonight.
💬 Devotional Summary:
“Don’t Look Back—There’s Nothing for You There”
The Kingdom calls you forward. The cross is in front of you, not behind.
You cannot plow straight while glancing back at your past comfort, sins, relationships, or identity.
Discipleship is not partial. It’s not polite. It’s not convenient. It’s total surrender to the worth and call of Christ.
He does not accept part-time followers.
But to those who count the cost, leave the nets, burn the plows, sell the pearls, and fill their lamps—
He gives everything.